Bahia is an incredible relationship coach. We use the tools we have learned from her on a weekly basis in our connection, in parenting, and in life. Honestly we are taking these tools and using them with our families of origin as well. Life doesn’t give you a map. Finding Bahia, someone who feels like they have a real understanding and set of tools to navigate such a huge part of life is such a priceless gift.

“If you are ready to reach a depth with your partner that we don't talk about enough, the kind of truly knowing each other that builds intimacy on a soul level, I cannot recommend Bahia enough.

Even though our situation was not that of a typical couple (on the brink of co-parenting), the work that we did together was how we got to know each other beyond the ego, beyond the superficial, beyond the emotional distress and deep down into where we come from, our inner child, why we are the way we are and how to ground ourselves & keep our physiology from taking over for our hearts. 

We were treated with such kindness, compassion and love. There was no taking sides or even really bringing an argument forth for some kind of co-signing - for any issues that came up, we were guided to figure out what really was creating that tension, to share about it and to help one another see what kind of pain was being experienced and how we could support each other instead of make things worse. 

If this isn't sounding easy to follow, that's because this work was so extraordinary and it's hard to describe if you haven't had it firsthand. The support Bahia showed us was more than we have ever found in a couples counselor before and the wisdom & perspective they brought were atypical and far exceeded our expectations. So grateful to Bahia, especially for giving us the gifts of self-compassion, empathy, patience & forgiveness. I cannot recommend highly enough - you will be changed by this work.”

“Working with Bahia was just what we needed. We weren’t entirely committed to going to therapy but her approach felt very specific and easy to drop into. Right away things opened up, things we didn’t really know were there. It got us talking more on our own time and started conversations we had desired to save the space for but hadn’t yet.”

Working with Bahia was one of the greatest gifts I gave myself. When I met her, I was struggling with compulsive behaviors that I didn’t understand and couldn’t seem to let go of, no matter how hard I tried. I was in a miserable, hopeless cycle jumping from one romantic interest to the next to avoid the pain that often underlies active addiction. She met with me with so much unconditional love, patience, and grace, regardless of how I showed up or how willing I felt.

Bahia supported me as I finally set down the behavioral armor I had been wearing for decades that was ultimately keeping me from finding love and being the kind of partner I wanted to be. She guided me through evaluating my past relationships and uncovering old patterns, then showed me healthier alternatives and coached me as I tried on this new way of life. She was by my side while I walked through some of the most painful and harrowing events in my life, like my dad dying of cancer. She was there for me through it all.

The most valuable gift I received from our time together was learning how to be kind and gentle towards myself. In my sessions with Bahia, I always felt heard, seen, cared for, and so safe. She taught me how to take deep care of myself and have a loving relationship with myself, which prepared me for the loving relationships and friendships I’m in now.  

Today, I’m in a conscious relationship with a loving life partner. I love how my partner and I communicate, respect and value each other, and how much fun we have together. We’ve talked about how this is the most vulnerable we’ve ever been in a romantic relationship, and how wonderful and nourishing it feels to let a lover see us as our whole selves. My work with Bahia prepared me to accept and know I’m worthy of the goodness and love in my life today.