REPAIR.
RECONNECT.
THRIVE.
conscious
relationship
coaching
You did it! You found your person.
The chemistry was great...
You shared meaningful things in common...
You started building the life of your dreams....
But things aren't going as smoothly as you envisioned...
You’re having the same kinds of fights…
over and over.
This isn't how you thought love would feel.
You don’t feel seen, heard, appreciated, or respected.
You’re avoiding conversations. It hasn’t gone well in the past.
The growing distance between you is starting to feel scary.
Maybe you're even questioning if this relationship is still right for you…
YOU'RE STUCK—AND ITS EXHAUSTING.
You keep thinking "if my partner would just take responsibility..."
You want the criticism and defensiveness to stop.
You’re afraid of passing on your issues to your children.
You crave more physical connection.
You're tired—and maybe even a little ashamed that things have gotten this bad.
IMAGINE...
A foundation of safety, trust, and understanding to fall back on when things get hard.
Feeling truly accepted and loved—exactly as you are.
Breakdowns becoming a path to deeper intimacy.
WANTING to have sex with your partner again.
Modeling healthy, connected love for your children.
THE QUESTION IS...
WHAT ARE WE MISSING HERE?
You’ve achieved success in other areas of life… but can’t seem to figure out why this isn’t working.
Unfortunately it doesn't always just happen organically, because - most likely - no one in your life modeled healthy relationships. And despite what you see on social media (or imagine other people's lives are like), being in intimate relationships can be extremely challenging.
Most of us bring both big "T" and little "t" traumas, along with personal baggage, family history and limiting beliefs to the table. And then our partner unconsciously holds up a mirror reflecting back these aspects of ourselves.
I’ve been where you're sitting.
I’ve lived through the pain of having breakdown after breakdown
(often about seemingly insignificant things)
in past relationships AND with my husband.
And I know that it's possible
to develop the self awareness, maturity and skills necessary
to move though challenges together.
an invitation
if you're
READY...
TO TAKE YOUR HAPPINESS INTO YOUR OWN HANDS
TO HEAL AT THE ROOT CAUSES
TO LEARN THE ART OF SKILLFUL COMMUNICATION
TO HONOR TO YOUR NEEDS AND DESIRES
TO MAKE AN INVESTMENT INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP
so you can get the f*ck off the hamster wheel
and get the love you want...
HEAR IT FROM Past CLIENTS
SOME kind WORDS
“
Bahia is an incredible relationship coach. We use the tools we have learned from her on a weekly basis in our connection, in parenting, and in life. Honestly we are taking these tools and using them with our families of origin as well. Life doesn’t give you a map. Finding Bahia, someone who feels like they have a real understanding and set of tools to navigate such a huge part of life is such a priceless gift.
— GREG & BECCA,
“Working with Bahia was just what we needed. We weren’t entirely committed to going to therapy but her approach felt very specific and easy to drop into. Right away things opened up, things we didn’t really know were there. It got us talking more on our own time and started conversations we had desired to save the space for but hadn’t yet.”
— SAM & GOPAL
“If you are ready to reach a depth with your partner that we don't talk about enough, the kind of truly knowing each other that builds intimacy on a soul level, I cannot recommend Bahia enough...this work was so extraordinary and it's hard to describe if you haven't had it firsthand. The support Bahia showed us was more than we have ever found in a couples counselor before and the wisdom & perspective she brought was atypical and far exceeded our expectations. So grateful to Bahia, especially for giving us the gifts of self-compassion, empathy, patience & forgiveness. I cannot recommend highly enough - you will be changed by this work.”
— TANYA
HEAR IT FROM Past CLIENTS
SOME kind WORDS
“
Bahia is an incredible relationship coach. We use the tools we have learned from her on a weekly basis in our connection, in parenting, and in life. Honestly we are taking these tools and using them with our families of origin as well. Life doesn’t give you a map. Finding Bahia, someone who feels like they have a real understanding and set of tools to navigate such a huge part of life is such a priceless gift.
— GREG & BECCA,
“Working with Bahia was just what we needed. We weren’t entirely committed to going to therapy but her approach felt very specific and easy to drop into. Right away things opened up, things we didn’t really know were there. It got us talking more on our own time and started conversations we had desired to save the space for but hadn’t yet.”
— SAM & GOPAL
“If you are ready to reach a depth with your partner that we don't talk about enough, the kind of truly knowing each other that builds intimacy on a soul level, I cannot recommend Bahia enough...this work was so extraordinary and it's hard to describe if you haven't had it firsthand. The support Bahia showed us was more than we have ever found in a couples counselor before and the wisdom & perspective she brought was atypical and far exceeded our expectations. So grateful to Bahia, especially for giving us the gifts of self-compassion, empathy, patience & forgiveness. I cannot recommend highly enough - you will be changed by this work.”
— TANYA
